We've all been there, you're walking down the street, through the grocery store, or at a stop light...that jaw dropping "What is she thinking?" moment when a lipstick color is just too BOLD! Instantaneously we create a story to explain why she feels it's necessary to be "So obnoxious", or we super judgmentally jump to the conclusion she didn't look in the mirror. I get it, I've been right there with you, having those same thoughts. I think our current society plays a part in our majorly reactive nature. So how do we change those thoughts? Can we? That's a personal thing I feel we all need to work through on our own (not just in the sense of judging makeup!). A method I put into practice myself was this: I put myself in her shoes. I wore bold lip color and the dramatic eye shadow...until I had made every facial makeup change possible. What did I find? I liked it! I felt bold, but more importantly I felt confident. I could step out the door ...